the birds and the bees
it was one of those days agian where i sat down and thought about things. today's topic? the birds and the bees. for those of you who are going "huh?", then it means SEX.
today i read about at least three articles on prematital sex prevention. my only comment? where were you people like 2 or 3 decades ago?! this isn't new. i mean didn't they see the signs when girls were aborting like anything? now all of a sudden, they go cold turkey? that's just crap!
i had a talk with mom. yes, she's the best. for your information, she knew everyone of my crushes eversince i had one. oh and yes, i brought this topic up to her and asked how she felt if i had premarital sex. she shot me the same question. hmmm... i never thought of it that way, but since i was asked, i came to a conclution that i would actually leave the decision to my children. i would educate them and tell them all they want to know about it. and if their decision stands that they do want to then i'd tell them "honey, use a condom!". no sex in the house that is. lol. but that's besides the point. mom's point of view? to be very brief, just to make sure the relationship lasts.but definatly upsetting at first. that's "understandable" i mean after all, she is my mom.
posted by witheredpetals @ 3:51 AM
1 Comments:
Hey Baby,
I guess it all boils down to the kind choices we all make in life. Most times it determines what comes up next. The most impt thing is to be aware of the consequences our choices come with - be it good or bad. Question is : Are we prepared to take up the responsibility of our choices? Or is it worth that few minutes of 'love'?
Of cos we need to bear in mind as well how our anatomy n hormones react at that moment. Thats when irresponsible fools say things like 'A spur of the moment choice' or 'I couldn't help myself' or worst 'Was only showing you how much I love you' Thats when the rollercoaster ride begins - regrets n in some cases abusive as well.
Love isnt what it seems sometimes, its abt sharing it with the one who respects when you say 'No'. It might seem the one thing you might wanna do thinking your sharing with the one you truely love n who loves you BUT think again, we are all individuals who goes thru even the slightest changes in life. You love me now but will you love me the same in 5 yrs down the road or a week later? Or will this act of love be a way of expressing one's love for the other. If that be the case then whatever happened to flowers, gifts, dates, romantic dinners etc? I am sure those have always been the courtship days of how a guy win the heart of the girl he fell in love with. Will this act of love replace those wonderful moments?
Bottomline here is 'Its the Choices we make and upholding the responsibilities it comes with'
Food for thought, Baby.
hugs n rainbows,
Mommie
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